Summer can feel overwhelming with pressure to plan elaborate activities—but for autistic children, it’s the simple, consistent moments of connection that matter most. Shared experiences like building a fort or watching the stars help strengthen trust, communication, and emotional security. These everyday interactions support sensory regulation and social-emotional growth, all while creating joyful memories together. When we slow down and tune in, we give our children exactly what they need: presence, patience, and love. Check out these 10 connection-focused, cost-free summer activities you can pencil into your calendar today to make some memorable summer moments with your child.

1. Nature Walk & Treasure Hunt
   Take a quiet walk through a park, forest preserve, or your neighborhood. Create a simple “treasure map” of things to find—like a smooth rock, feather, or red flower.
2. Sensory Picnic in the Backyard
   Lay out a blanket, bring favorite snacks from home, and include sensory-friendly items like a soft pillow, bubbles, or a fidget toy. Let them lead the rhythm of the moment.
3. Build a Blanket Fort & Tell Stories
   Create a cozy space together using blankets and pillows. Let your child lead the design and storytelling—whether they talk, draw, or act it out.
4. Water Play Day
   Fill up buckets or use the hose for splash time. Add cups, sponges, or even a DIY slip-n-slide. Many autistic children love the soothing rhythm of water.
5. Draw on the Sidewalk with Chalk
   Let them express themselves on the driveway or sidewalk. Try collaborative drawing: take turns adding to each other’s creations.
6. Stargazing Night
   Lay on a blanket after dark and look at the stars. Even without naming constellations, this can be a calm, shared moment of awe and grounding.
7. Create a “Yes Day” Adventure at Home
   Let your child pick five things they want to do at home—with boundaries but lots of “yes” energy. Follow their lead with joy.
8. Listen to Music & Dance Freely
   Pick favorite songs, make a playlist, and just dance or sway together. Let go of how it should look and follow their rhythm.
9. Visit a Local Library or Story Time
   Libraries are quiet, sensory-conscious spaces. Many offer inclusive story hours or cozy reading corners to curl up in together.
10. Make a Memory Book Together
    Use paper and markers to draw or write about summer adventures. Include feelings, not just events: “This made me feel happy/safe/silly…”